How do we stay in a relationship this long?? Well.. we’re crazy about eachother. And we make it work. I think we’re just perfect for one another. He calms me down, he’s my rock. Without him, I don’t have anything. And his life without me, he doesn’t have much either. He’s my absolute best friend. We’re always reminding eachother silly things we forget, where he left his car keys or hat, my phone.. we sound like a married couple. We fight very very very little. We’ve only gotten into one huge fight. You have to realize that the little things, you have to let go..if you want your significant other in your lives. you can’t freak out over every little thing or problem. you have to be happy with them. help them when they’re upset and don’t always find reasons to fight. be appreciative you even have someone there. you can’t let your mind wander all the time. you can’t always think the worst. you need to believe in them, your self, and the relationship. sure, i’ve over thought a bunch of times, but i know at the end of the day everything is perfect between us. you have to trust them. and know that sometimes its not always going to be 50/50.. itll be you giving 75% and the other giving 25 one day..and another day itll be the other way around. you have to let go of the problems and remember all the fighting, and all the tears, and all the uncertainty is worth it if it means i get to fall asleep next to him and wake up and smile when i see him there. thats how i am with Jesse, we dont always have our good days. but most of our days..are nothing short of perfect. and im very grateful to have him in my life.